Surinder Kumar emigrated to the UK at the tender age of 17, in December 1960 travelling alone, to a land he knew nothing about, his fear for the unknown was real. He could not speak a word of English, had never travelled outside his country, had to adjust overnight to the extreme cold climate and started working the day after he arrived into the country. They were long dark days, disheartening days, lonely times, walking long distances from morning till dusk, , carrying a large heavy suitcase filled with household supplies, knocking from door-to -door. He would try to sell what he could simply by pointing at the items in the case, and doing his best to communicate with his limited english…. . some front doors would not even open whilst other doors would firmly be slammed in his face. He quickly learnt to wedge the case in between the door so at least he could manage a look in with the hope of getting at least one sale, no sale no money!!!!
He never got dispirited, his determination, his fire in his belly to survive to make a ‘handful of cash’ as he put it was imperative….. ! He had to send money home to his parents and siblings, so he had to keep his resolve strong even in the darkest of times, and especially in his weakest moments. Seven days a week from dusk till dawn, come rain or shine he would walk for miles so he could provide for his family back home to support them so that they could one day join him and have a better life.
Therafter he joined the buses as a driver, describing it as the ‘best time in his life’. ….got married, and setup his businesses whilst bringing up a young family, thereby making Newcastle his home. He helped to serve the community and quickly became an invaluable member. His ability to smile when times were hard and keep on going, gave strength and resolve to the family. He set an example to all. His infectious smile and jokes kept all light hearted.
The much loved son of the late Mr Sagli Ram and late Mrs Nirmla Devi, was a dedicated husband to his wife Mrs Raksha Kumar, a doting father to Tina and Vinay, and the world’s best grandfather to Abhay, Anoushka and Mira and a respected older brother to Ashok and Kuldip Kumar. He will always be an amazing soul that worked hard throughout his life and was beyond dedicated to his entire family. When he laughed, you laughed, when you were down, he would lift you up and was a blessing to the entire family.
His actions always spoke louder than his words in that he never shied away from helping others. He would say that helping others was simply a must in life. His core principles do good, be kind, and help others. This is what made him an inspiration to his family and so many. The northeast was his home, the northeast was in his heart.
The Kumar family would like to request that instead of flowers, donations be made to Maggie's Newcastle, so that we can all continue to lift others and put joy back into life and enjoy this precious time we all have
Tina
1st November 2021
